By Ali M. Ali
A grandmother is a remarkable woman. She’s a wonderful combination of warmth and kindness, laughter and love. She overlooks our faults, encourages our dreams, and praises our every success.
About a month ago, Hajiya Hadiza Mohammed A. Abubakar, wife of Bauchi State governor, quietly marked a milestone, she turned 60.Thus she joined the elevated club of diamond jubilee members. There wasn’t any fanfare or the customary exhibitionist public ‘lecture.’
She discouraged the propensity among fawning aides and wives of local government caretaker committee chairmen to place newspaper adverts to celebrate the landmark. There wasn’t dancing and merriment or wanton consumption. Instead, she used the occasion to empathise with the less privileged and decidedly impact on her forte – women and children. On that day alone, she empowered 100 women with various life changing items.
That singular act was her way of expressing gratitude to the Creator, Allah (SWT) who has no peer, no beginning and no ending, for sparing her life to the ripe age of 60.
Indeed, the first lady of Bauchi State is richly blessed. Counting her boundless blessings for the six decades of her earthly sojourn will be an exercise in futility. Consider this: Blue blood by birth, public administrator by choice, married to her teenage love, blessed with well-bred children, some of whom have multiple degrees and are raising their own families, respected by her colleagues in the governors’ wives forum, loved by her in-laws and greatly admired by those she mentored. I could go on. The list is endless. Her blessings are truly boundless!
Like her husband, Hajiya Hadiza MA Abubakar, doesn’t look her age but looks girlish like her better half, Governor Abubakar who has a boyish ‘swagger’ and energy that leaves some of us, his lieutenants, sometimes gasping for breath and lagging behind. Keeping pace with him requires a certain degree of physical energy and intellectual rigour. Story for another day.
After nearly forty years of matrimony and several children together, her husband is clearly besotted. He had this to say on her 60th birthday.
“We thank Allah for granting you long life and you are endowed with a beautiful face and physique. I’m sure you can win a beauty contest if Islam had permitted women to participate in a beauty contest.”
Her pet NGO, the Bauchi Sustainable Women Economic Empowerment and Peace Initiative (B-SWEEP) bears eloquent testimony. It has changed the depressing narrative of misery and want among the womenfolk in the state. It seeks to boost the productive capacity of women through skills acquisition and financial literacy. It is also working to complement government’s effort by providing maternal and child care delivery services, re-integrating women and girls into the formal school system, enhancing food security through women participation in agriculture and creating awareness and coordinating activities aimed at fostering peace.”
To match vision with action, the B-SWEEP has trained over 600 women, youths, and IDPs in various skills, as well as provide foodstuff, clothing, and hygiene items to leprosy and tuberculosis patients, VVF centre, Rehabilitation Centres, and School for Children with Special needs. It has also provided nutritional meals for 1400 malnourished children as well as the provide delivery kits to 1600 pregnant women across the three senatorial zones in the state. B-SWEEP also supports the treatment of some cancer patients.
Over 100 IDPs orphans and vulnerable children in primary and secondary schools have been given scholarship. It is collaborating with UNESCO to see how they can integrate over 500 women and girls back to formal and non-formal school system. And on peace, B-SWEEP has organised peace clubs in 10 selected public schools so as to create awareness and promote peaceful co-existence among our youths.
She has interfaced with the ministry of Women Affairs and Child Development and also the state ministry of Health so as to touch the lives of women, children and vulnerable groups. Over 2000 women drawn from the 20 local government areas were trained in various skills, wheel chairs and other relief materials provided to the physically challenged persons, distribution of food items to IDPs in the state, distribution of food and sanitary items to the motherless babies’ home, distribution of food items to women during festive periods i.e. Sallah, Christmas.
Among family and relatives, she is a unifier, a natural giver and an instinctive listener. She listens to understand not to reply. A self-groomed leader with a master’s degree in public administration confirms this assertion. She rose to the peak as manager of men and materials as director the Central Bank of Nigeria, CBN, and retired after 30 years. Subordinates at the CBN still miss her benevolence. She is firm not to the point of rigidity. She bows to reason and values professionalism.
These attributes have earned her countless recognition, tittles and awards. Everywhere she goes in Bauchi, she is called ‘mama.’ This is for the listed reasons and more.
Royalty by genes, she also earned royalty by her selflessness. Today she is the ‘Uwar Matan Ningi,’ ‘Zinayar Toro’ and ‘Jakidyar Bununu,’ among several similar titles. She is also the chairperson of Northern Governors’ Wives Forum. She is a unifier and now, she is a matriarch. Happy birthday mama!
– Ali M Ali is an aide to Gov MA Abubakar.
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