When Udeme Akpa got admitted into secondary school, the joy of the parents knew no bounds. For them, it was like a prayer answered. As the first daughter of a family of eight, there were so many expectations including lifting the family from what could be described as ‘age-long poverty.’
Udeme, 18, was living up to expectation until the unexpected occurred. Her woes began one evening when a man in her neighbourhood gave her a ride to school.
Little did she know that the few minutes ride would later become a stumbling block to her life’s dream. A few months later, the same man identified as Mr. Udoh invited Udeme to his house, but she turned him down. After much persuasion, Udeme accepted to visit him. Sadly, innocent Udeme never knew she was playing with fire until he visited Udoh. On that fateful Friday, Udeme decided to visit him. Sadly, she was raped by the same man whom she thought showed her kindness. Subsequently, she had unprotected sex with Udoh.
Unfortunately, Udeme concealed the incident from her parents. Although, Udeme was sexually active, she was not on any type of family planning. A few months later, Udeme discovered she was pregnant. “I was confused and my friend took me to a chemist and because we didn’t have money to pay, the owner of the shop demanded that he sleeps with me before he will give me drugs. I had no choice than to do it,” She narrated.
In the process of trying to abort the pregnancy, Udeme had complications that ruptured her womb. She was hospitalised for weeks. That incident ended Udeme’s dream to finish college.
Udeme is one out of thousands of adolescents in Nigeria that have either lost their lives or maimed for life due to lack of access to family planning.
The case of Udeme is also among the 214 million women of reproductive age in developing countries who want to avoid pregnancy, but are not using a modern contraceptive method, according to the World Health Organisation (WHO) report.
Sadly, unsafe abortion remains a reality in Nigeria, despite the fact that it is regarded as a taboo and illegal by law.
Stories of young Nigerians who die while undergoing abortion abounds but, the act still goes on in smaller rooms and performed by traditional healers which makes it more dangerous and deadly.
Unintended pregnancy has become the bane in society. It is so rampant in society today.
Critical observers believed that pregnant teenagers in Nigeria are victims of the tragedy of all kinds. Many of these girls have died as a result of unsuccessful abortions, while others like Udeme have also dropped out of schools.
Statistics available put the number of out-of-school children in Nigeria at 10. 5 million, while the United Nations Children’s Fund, (UNICEF) says about 60 per cent of the figure are girls. Further findings also showed that unplanned pregnancies of teenagers make up the number.
However, for possible solutions, apart from sexual education, experts say encouraging teenagers to adopt family planning reduces the need for abortion, especially unsafe abortion like in the case of Udeme.
Family planning reduces adolescent pregnancies. WHO report also shows that pregnant adolescents are more likely to have preterm or low birth-weight babies. Babies born to adolescents have higher rates of neonatal mortality. Many adolescent girls who become pregnant have to leave school. This has long-term implications for them as individuals, their families and communities.
It is also believed that when teenagers are protected from abortion and unintended pregnancy they do not drop out of school but stay in school. Also, family planning methods, such as condoms, help prevent the transmission of HIV and other sexually transmitted diseases among adolescents.
It has also been established that by reducing rates of unintended pregnancies, family planning also reduces the need for unsafe abortion.
There is need to promote and make available for contraceptives for adolescent Nigerians in order to reduce their frustration accessioned by an unplanned pregnancy. According to WHO, family planning is key to slowing unsustainable population growth and the resulting negative impacts on the economy, environment, national and regional development efforts.
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