Ex- BBNaija star , Phyna , has shared her reservations about dating single fathers, stating categorically that her take is due to complications that may arise from the child’s mother being part of the man’s life.
She pour out her mind in the latest episode of her Podcast , titled; ‘Spill With Phyna’.
She revealed that she would only consider a relationship with a single father if the child’s mother was already married to someone else.
“I am not sure I can date a guy that has a child. I’ve met two guys who have children, these are my friends, and I’ve seen the drama around them. I’ve seen situations where the baby mama will come and be like, ‘Who are you now leaving me for?”Phyna said during the podcast.
Phyna voiced her concerns about potential “baby mama drama,” emphasising that she had witnessed cases where the child’s mother became a source of conflict and problems for the man involved.
Citing stress and chaos that often arise in such situations , particularly if the baby mama is resistant to the idea of the man moving on with his life, she said, for her, it was a total no.
“Even if the men don’t like you, even if they don’t want to settle down with you, the baby mama just doesn’t want them to move on,” Phyna added.
Meanwhile, the reality star has reacted to rumours that she is dating a 17-year-old singer, Khaid. Phyna and Khaid sparked relationship rumours after sharing their cozy picture on social media.
She was criticised because of the age difference between her and the singer.
However, speaking in her “Spill With Phyna podcast, she bemoaned the hypocrisy of society, questioning the disparity between men and women when it comes to choosing younger partners.
She said, “Me and this boy take picture; Khaid. He is young and the picture, I posted it. He posted it as well. Omo, if you see the dragging, ‘Oh Phyna, is this boy you’re dating now’, ‘Oh Phyna is 30-year-old, this boy is 10 years old.’
“It was so terrible that I started wondering that in this country we have ladies who are married to way older men. So, I want to know the difference between being a younger man and being a younger girl. Why can’t we have the same balance, I thought they said age is just a number?”
