‘They Left Me To Die’ — Halima Abubakar Recalls Lonely Battle With Illness

Nollywood actress Halima Abubakar has opened up about the loneliness she experienced during one of the darkest periods of her life, revealing that she reached out to music executive Michael Collins Ajereh, popularly known as Don Jazzy, more than 19 times but received no response.

The actress, who has previously spoken about her prolonged battle with illness, said the experience made her realise that some of the people she expected to stand by her during difficult moments were nowhere to be found.

According to Abubakar, despite sending several messages to Don Jazzy at the time, he did not respond to her.

She also claimed that some colleagues in the entertainment industry neither visited her nor sent anyone to check on her while she was battling for her health.

Recalling the period, the actress suggested that the absence of people she considered friends and colleagues was particularly painful because of the severity of what she was going through.

She said she felt abandoned by people she expected to show concern, describing the experience as one in which she was effectively “left to die.”

However, Abubakar said her survival became a testament to her faith, crediting God for seeing her through the difficult period.

Her disclosure has once again drawn attention to the often-unspoken reality of illness and vulnerability in the entertainment industry, where public visibility does not necessarily translate into personal support during times of crisis.

For Abubakar, the experience appears to have reshaped her understanding of relationships and support, particularly the difference between people who are present during celebrations and those who remain when circumstances become difficult.

The actress has been open about her health struggles in recent years, making her journey one of resilience and survival.

Her latest revelation also raises broader questions about the support systems available to entertainers dealing with serious health challenges, especially when prolonged illness takes them away from the spotlight.

While Abubakar’s account reflects her personal experience, her comments have sparked renewed conversations about friendship, compassion and the importance of checking on people during their most vulnerable moments.

For the actress, however, the most significant lesson appears to be gratitude for surviving a period she once feared could claim her life.

Despite feeling abandoned by some people she expected to be there for her, Abubakar said she ultimately found strength in her faith and credited God with giving her another chance at life.