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5 Toxic Communication Habits That Can Derail Your Relationship

by ZULEIHAT CHATTA
10 months ago
in Lifestyle
Toxic Communication
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Communication is the cornerstone of any healthy relationship, yet certain communication habits can slowly erode even the strongest bonds. While disagreements and misunderstandings are inevitable, how we communicate during these moments can determine the trajectory of a relationship. Here are some communication habits that can quietly but effectively destroy a relationship if left unchecked.

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1. Stonewalling: The Silent Treatment
Stonewalling occurs when one partner completely withdraws from a conversation, refusing to engage or communicate. This often happens during conflicts when emotions are high, and one partner feels overwhelmed. While it might seem like a way to avoid further argument, stonewalling can make the other person feel ignored, invalidated, and disconnected.
Over time, repeated stonewalling can create an emotional distance that’s difficult to bridge. Instead of shutting down, it’s crucial to express the need for a break, allowing time to cool off before revisiting the conversation with a clear mind.

2. Criticism: Attacking The Person, Not The Problem:
Criticism in relationships is often masked as constructive feedback, but when it targets a person’s character rather than their behavior, it becomes harmful. Statements like “You never listen” or “You’re always so selfish” attack the core of who someone is, rather than addressing specific issues.
This form of communication fosters resentment and defensiveness, leading to a cycle of negativity. To avoid this, focus on expressing feelings using “I” statements, such as “I feel unheard when…” This shifts the conversation to address the issue without attacking your partner’s character.

3. Defensiveness: Shutting Down Instead Of Listening
When faced with criticism or complaints, it’s natural to feel defensive. However, constantly defending oneself without acknowledging the other person’s perspective can hinder constructive communication. Defensiveness often turns a simple discussion into a heated argument, where neither party feels heard or understood.

The key to overcoming defensiveness is to practice active listening. Acknowledge your partner’s feelings and show that you’re open to their perspective. Even if you disagree, validating their emotions can de-escalate tension and pave the way for a more productive conversation.

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4. Contempt: The Ultimate Relationship Killer
Contempt is often considered the most destructive of all communication habits. It involves speaking to your partner with sarcasm, ridicule, or disdain, conveying a sense of superiority. Contempt can manifest through eye-rolling, name-calling, or mocking, and it signals a deep lack of respect.

Over time, contempt can lead to a complete breakdown of the relationship, as it erodes the foundation of love and respect. The antidote to contempt is cultivating a culture of appreciation within the relationship. Regularly expressing gratitude and focusing on positive qualities can help counteract the negativity that leads to contempt.


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