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Love, Not Pressure: Why Your Partner Isn’t Your Provider Yet

by Christiana Nwaogu
4 weeks ago
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Why Your Partner Isn’t Your Provider Yet
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Engagement is an exciting milestone, one filled with dreams of a shared future, emotional connection, and growing together as a couple. However, it’s crucial to remember that being engaged doesn’t mean you’ve already stepped into marriage—where roles and responsibilities evolve into something deeper and more permanent.

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As such, it’s important not to place expectations on your partner that they aren’t yet prepared to handle.

While it’s natural to envision your future together, including sharing financial burdens, providing emotional support, and building a life side by side, engagement is a time to lay the foundation for that partnership—not to assume your partner will take on the full weight of responsibility just yet. In some relationships, the pressure can unintentionally fall on one person to act as a provider—whether that’s emotionally, financially, or practically—even before the wedding day.

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Remember, engagement is meant to be a season of growth and mutual understanding. Both partners should still be learning about each other’s needs, dreams, and limitations. It’s a time to nurture your bond without overwhelming one another with too many responsibilities. Assigning these heavy roles too early can create tension, build resentment, and lead to unhealthy dynamics before your marriage even begins.

True partnership in marriage comes from equality and shared responsibility. While it’s important to support and care for one another, there’s no need to rush into the full emotional and financial roles that will come once vows are exchanged. Let the engagement be a time to focus on love, communication, and preparing for the future without the undue stress of “playing house” too early.

As you plan for your wedding, take time to discuss and establish your expectations together. Remember, love thrives when both people are on equal footing, moving forward as teammates and not as one person’s caretaker or sole provider. So, enjoy the engagement period, build your relationship, and give each other the space to grow—without turning one partner into a provider before the time is right.

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